One of my gym buddies is in a fix, he is having a romantic relationship with a woman and vice versa at his workplace secretly ten years his senior , she is also a with a baby girl.
Husband died in accident few years back and she lives with her mom and kid is in kindergarten.
If you can’t be happy for a partner’s success, you shouldn’t be dating that person. "Hey, I feel like dating a [describes a type of person] now." Sure, it may lead to some fun for a while, but treating deciding who you might date like you treat deciding what to order at an off-brand fast food restaurant when you’re super high is not a great recipe for romance. He didn’t sit around thinking about how old she was.
Or any people for that matter, because you’re probably a narcissist or an awful human being. It is however a great recipe for spreading HPV to many different types of people. He was too busy being pumped about spending time with the badass, hot as hell Robin Wright.
He inspires me to be the best of myself.") has you considering a search for your own Claire Underwood-style partner in crime.
Maybe you recognize that older women are often successful and confident and those are attractive qualities to you. But, if your reasons align more with the first two examples and not with the garbage-y third one, congrats!
My husband was attracted to me with a 9 1/2 year age gap without me looking younger than I am. I don't know many 25 year old guys who want to deal with preteens or kids at all.The woman has a kid already, I would try to avoid that but if they love each other then they should tie the knot. I don't understand how it's the age thing you're hung up on, rather than the fact that she already has a kid; if there's anything that will strain their relationship, it's that. If age was a factor to him, then he wouldn't be seeing her in the first place, much less thinking about marriage.I don't understand how it's the age thing you're hung up on, rather than the fact that she already has a kid; if there's anything that will strain their relationship, it's that. And in this particular situation I don't think her age would be the problematic part either (if there's even a problem)..what you wrote:"One of my gym buddies is in a fix""i also advised my freind to not marry in impulse, now he is angry with me also for not supporting him."It seems he's fine with his situation and you're the one seeing it as a problem.There are a lot of reasons why dating an older woman might be attractive to you.Maybe Robin Wright’s amazing quote in Vanity Fair about her life with Ben Foster ("Perhaps it’s not ladylike [to say], but I’ve never laughed more, read more, or come more than with Ben.